Looking for a DBT skills group in Corvallis, Oregon? I have one! Give me a call at (541)224-6732 to schedule a meeting with me to find out if DBT (dialectical behavior therapy) is right for you, to find out how it works, and to get started!
First, the details:
- When: Wednesdays, at 12:30 pm to 2 pm.
- Where: 260 SW Madison Ave, Ste 104-5, Corvallis OR 97333.
- How much: $30 per session, paid online through debit, credit cards, or PayPal. Online registration is required. (Sadly, I can’t take your insurance.)
- Starting date: You can join anytime, because all the modules are self-contained! Jump right in.
- Prerequisites: A working knowledge of English! And a willingness to use the skills between classes (that’s your homework). You do not have to be in individual therapy. You don’t have to “believe in” DBT or be prepared for “deep” work in group. This is more of an interactive classroom experience.
- Duration: 6 months.
What is My DBT Skills Group?
DBT lays out four sets of skills: mindfulness, distress tolerance, emotional regulation, and interpersonal skills. When you join my group, you’ll learn all four sets.
- Mindfulness. Ever been angry and curious at the same time? It’s hard to do! Mindfulness is getting big these days. When we’re curious, when we’re living in the moment, it’s hard to be freaked out. You can bring gentle focused awareness to any feeling, and it will change in some way. Mindfulness is now a core piece of many therapies. “Let’s get curious together” is a form of mindfulness. Mindfulness, as Linehan teaches it, is learned through structured practice. Her worksheets offer you tons of different ways to practice it so you can find things that work for you.
- Distress Tolerance: I word this, “how to get through the difficult moments without accidentally making them worse.” Because when we’re really upset or mad or scared, we can tend to do things that do make it worse! We’ve all snapped at someone in anger and wish later that we hadn’t said something so hurtful. Some of us have shut down when we’re hurt rather than talking about it. The people Marsha started out working with would sometimes do dangerous things, sometimes to contain their distress, and sometimes to communicate it in the best way they knew how. Distress tolerance offers lots of ways for you to bring the most intense feelings down fast. When we can do this, we can keep things from blowing up in our faces!
- Emotional Regulation: Often, people with lots of distress who do things impulsively have emotions that come to the surface very quickly. They suddenly feel despair, or rage, or cycle between angry and numb. Marsha offers tools to identify your emotions, name them (which helps all by itself!), and also offers very specific ways to help you to sort them out. So that emotions can be mined for information about what you need or want, and so you can start to take a step back from emotions that are overwhelming. And gain skills to work with them – to notice them with compassion and curiosity, and to try different skills for reducing the ones that are getting too much and making it hard to think or act.
- Interpersonal Skills: Lots of people LOVE these skills! Marsha has training in behavior modification, which is basically how to help people want to do what we want them to do. She offers ways to make friends, ways to discuss conflicts, ways to make requests assertively but kindly — ways to get more of what you want in your relationships.
These are skills that we can all use! I won’t be just teaching these: I’ll be practicing them right along with you. We’ll have time and space to discuss our successes, our failures, and to brainstorm together about how to use skills in various situations.
There’s homework! Which lots of clients come to like, because it gives them reminders on what to DO in moments where they used to flounder or kinda react on auto-pilot.
“Should I Join?”
You’re likely to be a great fit for my DBT skills group if:
- A professional you trust has recommended that you take a DBT skills group.
- One-on-one therapy seems too intense, abstract, or difficult right now, and you’re looking for something lighter (but still useful!).
- You’d like to be with others with similar struggles, providing brainstorming, support, community, and examples. You aren’t alone!
“Sign Me Up!”
Ready to join my DBT skills group? Give me a call at (541)224-6732 and we’ll take it from there.
More about DBT
DBT stands for dialectical behavior therapy. Here’s how it came about: Marsha Linehan, a psychologist, tried to use her method of choice, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), with her most challenging clients. She expected to be able to show the world what a great method CBT was for the clients in the most despair, having the most difficulty. People who injured themselves. People who hurt others. People who did risky stuff. People who had been kicked out of psych wards.
Then, she made a discovery: These clients weren’t benefiting from CBT. At all. They felt invalidated.
She’d tell them to change their thoughts, and they’d say, “I can’t! Don’t you see how much pain I’m in?”
So she tried the opposite. She validated their pain, their She was warm. She was empathic. She was reflective. Guess what? That didn’t work either! Or it was a half-step forward. Clients started saying, “That’s great that you understand my pain. But now what are we going to DO about it?”
Then Marsha developed a treatment that does both: Validates the depth of the struggle, really grasping how very scary those hard moments are. A treatment that “gets” how hard it is to think straight when your heart is racing, your hands are shaking, and you’re freaking out.
But also a treatment that gives you things to DO in those hard, hard moments. Specific things. Simple things. Things you can remember and do when you’re really freaked out. And ways to make your life better in between, so those moments happen less and less often, with less and less intensity.
And more skills to make good moments happen more and more often.
Skills broken down into categories. Into simple, doable things. Lots and lots of things. Things to do, to try. Lots of coaching on how to get through the hard moments. And also, lots and lots of coaching to build good moments.